By accepting yourself and each day you get a better understanding of who you truly are. how you have let society's cultural mores influence you as to what you believe you SHOULD want versus what you TRULY want. It's like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. You cannot find what you truly desire until you release the fear of not being accepted by others.
You are depending on others to tell you what you want versus allowing time for the real truth to make itself visible. We tend to hide it away because we're told that's not the way it's supposed to be or it's supposed to be this way not that way.
The established norms of what a happy relationship consists of as prescribed by old out dated thinking versus what your heart tells you is right for you. This either leads you into relationships that are not fulfilling and lead you on a hard karmic path; or you find yourself alone - choosing solitude rather than take on another relationship which you already know that by definition is not what you want. So society will more readily accept your choice of solitude versus really going after what will truly suit your needs.
Once you accept your own definition of an ideal relationship, a freedom from a sense of societal responsibility drops away. It is more about a self acceptance of what your heart really will find joy in.
When this occurs then the doors to the infinite will appear and by the Law of Attraction draws to you a person that will match your vibration, another that also shares your sense of clarity, as to what is desired. You will share this vision together and that is what leads you to a relationship known as the DIVINE COMPLEMENT, Twin Hearts and Love mates.
Best of all is the feeling you carry within you - that it's okay to want what you WANT!
Beloveds, I'm so proud of you, Blessings,