Forgiveness is a process. As you become aware that you are being blocked from your flow of prosperity, manifesting your desires, abundance and joy - you must then look to actions and thoughts that were not of your highest good.
A good way to start is through Forgiveness meditations as a general way to start allowing those events and relationships which are in need of healing. The next step is to recite on a daily basis affirmations of release and forgiveness for yourself and others.
Here are some you can use:
- I forgive myself completely for every mistake I have ever made.
- I forgive others knowing that we all did the best we could at the time.
- I let go of guilt, blame, shame, judgment and hurt.
- I forgive myself for my unconscious behaviors of the past and I forgive others theirs as well.
- I allow myself to feel forgiven and to move forwards in life.
Once you feel your heart opening to the idea of Forgiveness - then you can write a list of the people and events that need healing. You also must look at what you did to allow this into your life. Ok so here is one of my major "A HA" moments, No one can hurt you unless you have allowed it! How's that for you? Yikes, No one can steal from you unless you are a thief. No one can cheat you unless you are a cheater. And so insert what you feel has been done to you and then see how you have do it to others.
How's that you say, I've never stolen money from someone and someone did it to me. How can I be a thief? Well, maybe you have not stolen money, but maybe you stole someone's time by complaining and telling them how much of a victim you were. It does not necessarily mean you did the same action but in some way you did take something from someone. Food for thought, huh?!
There is a fundamental truth about Forgiveness - we can learn invaluable lessons about compassion, love and understanding.
Tomorrow we will continue on the subject of Forgiveness and I send you many blessings, love and compassion on your journey.
Light and love